Child custody: Stop harmful statements on social media, Dele Momodu advises Davido, Sophia
Dele Momodu, publisher of Ovation International and uncle to Sophia Momodu, mother of Davido’s first daughter, has advised the duo to refrain from making harmful and irreversible statements about the custody of their child on social media.
Momodu took to his Instagram page on Saturday to share his opinion on the joint custody dispute between Davido and Sophia.
“The vitriolic rhetoric in the media should be avoided by all means, as this only further inflames what is already a traumatic experience for all parties involved, especially the child in question.”
He urged both parties to prioritise their daughter’s well-being and compromise on custody and financial responsibilities.
Supreme News reports that the matter is currently a subject of litigation before the court.
Momodu, in a lengthy post captioned “MY CANDID OPINION ON DAVID ADELEKE vs. SOPHIA MOMODU," wrote: “Last night, I received a distressing message from Mr. David Adeleke (aka Davido). He was obviously devastated by the counter-affidavit submitted in court earlier in the day in response to his affidavit seeking joint custody of his daughter with my niece Sophia Momodu.
“I had seen David’s affidavit about two weeks ago, and I was very surprised, as David and I had spoken on a video call days earlier, with him and Pastor Tobi Adegboyega, and he never told me he had any custody issues with my niece.
“So you can imagine my confusion to find out via social media and subsequently confirmed by my niece that he had filed an action in court seeking joint custody of their daughter.
“During the referenced video call, we were all very excited about his forthcoming wedding ceremony, an event our family congratulated him about. Prior to this, David had told me he eventually spoke to their daughter after a long lull of about two years.
“He was very happy and excited. So I thought everything was settled, and he and Sophia would now have the opportunity to take maximum care of their daughter. I had offered special thanks to David’s dad, Dr. Adedeji Adeleke, for his kindness and support for our daughter during the period of David’s absence.
“I had also taken Sophia and their daughter to my very dear friend, Governor Ademola Adeleke, seeking his intervention. To the best of my knowledge, there was never a problem with joint custody.
“The issues were: non-payment of school fees for several sessions; non-payment of accommodation and salaries of a nanny. There was no car dedicated to David’s daughter. And so on. Mercifully, I mentioned all this to Dr. Adedeji Adeleke, and he responded positively, like a true grandfather.
“On the issue of non-payment of school fees, David’s dad cleared everything and also set up payments for future bills. He gave his granddaughter a car to take her to school. The remaining issue was accommodation.
“David’s dad verbally offered, in his discussions with me, one of their family apartments in Oniru Estate, Victoria Island; however, maybe due to miscommunication, David’s lawyers had communicated otherwise. After Sophia clarified with me, she politely declined the offer, and her reason was tenable in my view because, since she’s not married to David, she can’t be comfortable living in a place swarming with David’s family members.
“She and her daughter had been living in Ikoyi before David and Sophia started their latest quarrels. Sophia’s request was that David should pay half of the accommodation while she would pay the other half. David said he could only contribute N5 million annually.
“My opinion is that the absence of camaraderie between David and Sophia has caused this debacle. I have cautioned repeatedly that their daughter must not be allowed to suffer or be treated like a second-class child. David’s global status makes this imperative.
“Sophia allowed David access to their daughter, provided she had her nanny around 24/7. The 9-year-old herself made this request, and I believe this should be favourably considered and accepted. My granddaughter had been released to go out with her cousins on several occasions.
“The Governor’s daughter, Nike, was at Sophia’s house with the Governor’s grandson last Christmas Day, despite the fact that there wasn’t ample notice, & she still granted access.
“Two months ago, the governor’s son, Sina Rambo, requested a play date between the kids, & Sophia rented out a children’s place in Victoria Island for them to spend hours together. The only timeshe couldn’t join her father’s family was when her grandfather requested to go on vacation with her for three weeks last year, as the notice was too short and Sophia had already paid for their own trips due to a lack of communication between the parents.
“The court yesterday referred the case for possible settlement by the alternative dispute resolution (ADR) section of the court during Settlement Week, and I strongly advise that David (and Sophia) engage truly with the process as opposed to making harmful and irreversible statements on social media that not only violate the law but also the interests of their child.
“I have in the past 9 years tried my best to ensure amicable resolution of disputes and encouraged both parents to have a proper structure put in place for the welfare of their daughter.
“It is important to note that Sophia did not initiate this court action and is only seeking to protect their daughter and ensure that there is a structured, safe, and sustainable manner in which father and child can engage with each other.“
